Happy Holidays

Growing up, I heard many Igbo proverbs from my father. I remember one that says "the lizard that jumped from the high Iroko tree said that it would praise itself even if no one praised him". I am feeling very reflective today and I am not even at the end of my master's journey yet. That proverb refers to the lizard; it is very well known for falling from very tall trees and nodding it's head in self-praise, as it lands on the ground. Self-motivation is absolutely necessary on this student journey, on any journey for that matter. But especially for an international student living and studying in the UK, from the heat of sub-saharan Africa, in the middle of the winter and with expectations which may have been too high.

A Lizard suns itself. Photo credit: www.southwestguidebook.com

I think that in order to have an all round experience, every potential student must be realistic with expectations for living and studying successfully in a new place. It is important to research your course, the career options, the lecturers who will teach you, the economy, employment rates, standard of living in the country, the university itself, and the town or city in which you will live. This will help with your expectations and budgeting in more ways than one. As with everything else, knowledge is power and an understanding of how the system works, will provide a soft landing for you and your SMART goals.

In some ways, I have to say that studying/living here for the last nine months has been a mixed bag of sorts. I was not totally unprepared, but the actual thing is an experience which one has to live through to actually understand and appreciate it. I have researched and written assignments in 24 hours, I have moved flats (carrying my clothes in their hangers since that's what students do), I have written exams running on adrenalin and mental caffeine (as I had to pull an all-nighter and I am allergic to coffee), I have had a bag of sugar thrown at me from a moving vehicle (I ducked, thank heavens, still not sure who they were or what that was about), I have attended interviews which have amounted to nothing much, and I have made some lifelong friends from everywhere. As I write this post,I have not slept for 48 hours; no thanks to an internship, a very part-time job, a new and exciting something, and a full day of classes at the university.

Books and coffee. Source:www.pnc.edu

To recall the Igbo proverb, I shall be like a lizard and sound my own drums. Yes, I have done a great job of juggling it all, so far. Invariably, my time here so far has had its ups and downs, its disappointments and hardships, but I doubt that I will have it any other way. I still have about 5 months to go, before I complete my coursework, and I think it is time for a much needed break for me. The christmas holidays start in a few weeks and I have received a number of invitations from some friends to spend christmas here in the UK. I hope we get some snow; atleast for a few hours; one cannot live in England for the duration of a master's degree and not see some authentic snow especially at christmas.

Happy holidays to you. Enjoy all that turkey and see you in the New Year.

Grades, Travel, Freebies and House Hunting: The Joys of Being a Student

I am well into my summer holidays and I have to say that I have had a really great time. I travelled to the South of France for a few days and had the best time. It was sunny and just right, and there was a lot to to. It was my first  time in France, I went to Carcassone and Toulouse. Perhaps the best part for me was finding lots of freebies which I got for being a student; certain places gave me 10% off meals and drinks when I showed them my identity card.

I went on to travel within the UK for a bit after France. It helped that I had received my grades before I went and so I knew exactly where I was with the units of my course, and I was in a good place. All that studying seems to have paid off. After France, I went to the Midlands and had a small tour of the little villages around Stoke-On-Trent and was struck at how different it is from Luton and London. I did some very English activities including going to a lovely tea room which served scones with cream and jam, as well as really great tea complete with tea cups, sieve and cupcakes.

Before my visit to Stoke-On-Trent, I started with places of interest in Luton which I had been too busy to see. I went to Stockwood Park Discovery centre in Luton, had a wander in its park and had lunch in the cafeteria, I went for a comedy night at the Hat Factory (which is a post for another day), and I went to Venue 360 the place with tennis courts and loads of fun stuff to do. Apparently, they have a plethora of discounts and concessions for University of Bedfordshire students, which is great if you are living on a budget.

Speaking of budgets, I am still searching for a job, nothing has come through yet and this may explain why freebies are concessions are so important to me right now and almost got a post of their own as they now come in very handy. Have you made any headway with your search? I have been luckier with finding accommodation. I have now found a really great space in an excellent area close to the university. I am thankful that I practically lived at the university for the first six months of my time here as those were absolutely key  to how I adjusted and began the race towards my Msc. House hunting completed, I am now focusing on looking at the modules required for PRINCE2 foundation and practitioner exams, which I shall write in February 2015 (no harm in starting early) while I continue to search for that oh-so-elusive job which will ensure that I can enjoy my pints and shisha at the Lounge and wherever else I choose to go.

Photos:

1.  Sign of events at the Carcassone Festival (Photo credit: Me)
2. The central square in Carcassone (Photo credit: Me)
3. Tea in West Coyney (Photo credit: Me)
4. Exhibition at Stockwood Discovery Park in Luton (Photo credit: www.lutonculture.com) 
5. Comedy club logo at the Hat Factory Luton (Photo credit: www.lutonculture.com)